Kink Resources Long List

Please use your own good sense and a broad variety of sources. Best wishes!

For direct links to various specific introductory articles, how-to ideas and glossaries, see BDSM Information Links: Ranai’s Short List

Comments or questions? Further resources? You can post them on the FAQ page.

Contents
Blogs
BDSM and Fetish Information Sites
Bondage Tutorials
Specific Activities and Fetishes, Miscellaneous
General Sexuality and Gender
Groups and Gatherings
Discussion Forums, Online Social Networks, Dating Sites
Web Directories
Links in Languages other than English

Blogs

http://akalashi.wordpress.com – Akalashi’s world
http://alternativejourney.blogspot.com – E is for eclectic, Elizabeth
http://archers-elegant.livejournal.com – A life in the day of a slave, Archer’s Elegant
http://archer-ga.livejournal.com – Still thinking, Archer
http://bannon.com/?page_id=11 – Race Bannon
http://bdsmwatch.com – BDSM watch, SM and DS in the mass media
http://beantwiceover.wordpress.com – Bean twice over
http://beautyindarkness.blog.ca – Beauty in darkness: the history of BDSM, Peter Tupper
http://beyondthehills.wordpress.com – Beyond the hills, Ranat
http://www.bightme.com – Bight me! Nikita
http://bitchyjones.wordpress.com – Bitchy Jones’s diary, Beej
http://bloodsexcrimson.com – Blood, sex, crimson, D’jaevle
http://bloodylaughter.com – A place to draw blood laughing, Eileen
http://www.bobwingate.com – Bob Wingate
http://boymeat.livejournal.com – Boymeat
http://bufftuff.blogspot.com – Buff’s tufftalk
http://bybloemen.wordpress.com – Bybloemen
http://chasingeros.wordpress.com – Chasing Eros, Nameless
http://clarissethorn.wordpress.com – Clarisse Thorn
http://collarncuffs.blogspot.com – Collar ‘n’ cuffs, Miss Bonnie
http://curvaceousdee.blogspot.com – Curvaceous Dee
http://danaewhispering.blogspot.com – Danae whispering
http://dartsdomain.typepad.com – Dart’s domain
http://devastatingyet.wordpress.com – Devastating yet inconsequential, Dev
http://dk-leather.blogspot.com – A leather life, DK Leather
http://domme-chronicles.blogspot.com – Domme chronicles, Ferns
http://downonmyknees.com – Down on my knees, Richard Evans Lee
www.erosblog.com – Erosblog, Bacchus
http://eviltorturingangel.blogspot.com – Evil torturing angel, Myles
http://fd-midori.livejournal.com – Thoughts and distractions, Midori
http://fetishmeme.com – Fetish meme, provisional prompts for blogging
http://followsthesun.com – Follows the sun, Heliotrope
http://freaksexual.wordpress.com – Freaksexual, Pepomint
http://fuckalovestory.blogspot.com – Fuck: a love story, Tilda
http://girlwithaonetrackmind.blogspot.com – Girl with a one-track mind, Abby Lee
http://gloriabrame.typepad.com – Inside the oversexed mind of Gloria Brame
www.heartfullofblack.com – Heart full of black, Wendy Blackheart
http://hitchingpost.wordpress.com The hitching post, Sam
http://hopefuldescent.blogspot.com – Hopeful descent, Hope
http://howmyotherhalflives.wordpress.com – How my other half lives, Sascha K
http://www.iamfivestar.com/wordpress – Fivestar
http://influencing-machine.blogspot.com – Under the influence, Fluence
http://inscarletink.blogspot.com – In scarlet ink, Orlando C.
http://ireensarrows.wordpress.com – Ireen’s arrows
http://jadegate.blogspot.com – The jade gate, M. Yu
http://jaspamaster.livejournal.com – Dov
http://jhusdhui.livejournal.com – Jhusdhui
http://joscelinverreui.livejournal.com – The slave within, Joscelin
http://justalovetap.wordpress.com – Love tap, Tyr
http://kinkandculture.blogspot.com – Kink and culture, Tilda
http://kinkresearch.blogspot.com – Kink research overviews, Orlando C.
http://kinkylibrarian.net – Diary of a kinky librarian, Nadia West
http://ladyaconite.wordpress.com – Lady Aconite
http://lantoniou.blogspot.com – Laura Antoniou
www.laphalene.com – La Phalene
http://ldyraven.wordpress.com – Whip appeal, Raven
www.leatheryenta.com – Lolita Wolf’s predictions and predilections
http://lettersfromgehenna.blogspot.com – Letters from Gehenna, Dw3t-Hthr
http://livinginoutlawterritory.blogspot.com – Living in outlaw territory, Goose
www.lustlovelatex.com – Lust love and latex, 3xL
http://makingtimeforsex.wordpress.com – Making time for sex (or spankings), Ofia and J.
http://maybemaimed.com – Maybe maimed but never harmed, Maymay
http://www.minameow.com – Mina Meow
www.mollena.com – Mollena Williams
http://moreinches.wordpress.com – More inches, Silia and Ve
http://mottledwithteethmarks.blogspot.com – Mottled with teeth marks
http://ms-impact-play.blogspot.com – Ms Impact Play
http://msreciprocity.com – Ms Reciprocity
http://nakeysub.blogspot.com – The adventures of Mistress and Nakeysub
http://ncsf.wordpress.com – National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (US)
http://okienawa.blogspot.com – Okie Nawa
http://passionandsoul.livejournal.com – Passion and soul, Lee Harrington
http://pmsleaze.blogspot.com – Post modern sleaze, Electronic Doll
http://poisonbeatrice.livejournal.com – PoisonBeatrice
http://polyperversity.blogspot.com – Polymorphous perversity, Harper Jean
http://poundcake.wordpress.com – Poundcake; Whynotkay, Pepomint, Dangerkitten, Eric Litton
http://prettyinkink.wordpress.com – Pretty in kink, Mz Sue
http://propereffed.blogspot.com – Proper fucked, M. Monkey
http://pureliquidkink.wordpress.com – Pure liquid kink, Roo-roo
http://queerradical.com – Queer radical, Kyle
http://realadultsex.com – Real adult sex, Figleaf
http://rubbercanuck.blogspot.com – Rubber Canuck
http://ruffsstuffblog.blogspot.com – Ruff’s stuff
http://sadiste.blogspot.com – Sadiste
http://saraeileen.com – Sara Eileen
http://seraglioletters.wordpress.com – Letters from a seraglio, Sera
http://sexability.blogspot.com SexAbility, Sexuality and Disability, Ms Pet, Trinity, Redqueen, Zephyr, Gaina
http://sexgeek.wordpress.com – Sex Geek, Andrea Zanin
www.sexnshoes.com – Sex. Shoes. Thursday’s child has far to go
http://sexualstruggles.blogspot.com – Overpowered: sexual struggles
http://slitherings.blogspot.com – Slitherings, Habu
http://smartgirlsecrets.blogspot.com – Secret confessions of a smart girl, Rona
http://sm-feminist.blogspot.com – Let them eat pro-sm feminist safe spaces
http://spokewench.wordpress.com – Spokewench
http://squealsofdelight.wordpress.com – Squeals of delight, Maja
http://sublimesubmission.blogspot.com – Sublime submission, Naughtybuttcute
http://submissivewithclaws.blogspot.com – Submissive with claws, Zula
http://subtletimes.wordpress.com – Subtle’s blog
http://subversivesub.wordpress.com – Subversive submissive
www.sugarbutch.net – Sugarbutch chronicles, Sinclair Sexsmith
http://switchitup.wordpress.com – The switch is not a myth, Teppycat
http://tacit.livejournal.com – Franklin’s journal, Tacit
www.thecontrolenthusiast.com – The control enthusiast
http://theheronclan.blogspot.com – The heron clan
www.thesexcarnival.com – Viviane’s sex carnival
http://thetammyjo.livejournal.com – Femdom from the mind of TammyJo Eckhart
http://thorney.blogspot.com – Thorney’s stuff
http://today-i-am-a-boy.blogspot.com – Today I am a boy, Kit
http://topologies.wordpress.com – Topologies, Cal, Ivy, Delilah
http://trinityva.livejournal.com – The strangest alchemy, Trinity
http://twistedmonk.blogspot.com – Twisted Monk
http://undertheboot.wordpress.com – Under the boot, Belisarius
http://unspeakableaxe.com – Unspeakable Axe
http://vanillaedge.wordpress.com – The edge of vanilla, Tom Allen
http://vanillaextract.blogsome.com – 100% genuine artificial vanilla extract, Victor
http://venusropes.blogspot.com – Venus ropes, Jocasta
http://viewfromthefloor.com – A view from the floor, CarrieAnn
http://violacious.wordpress.com – Violetwhite, Violacious
www.washi-nawashi.com/washiword/blog-posts – Washi Nawashi, Dov

Blog Directories and Listings

http://adultbloghub.com
www.bdsmweblogs.com
http://sugasm.com

Podcasts

http://dartsdomain.typepad.com – Dart’s domain podcast
http://dungeonplace.com/hole/podcasts – FetishCast
http://vimeo.com/groups/kinkforall – Kink for all videos
http://kinkontap.com – Kink on tap, Maymay
http://leatherbound.libsyn.com – Leather bound, Scott Mallinger
http://leatherpodcast.libsyn.com – Leather radio network
http://leatherviews.libsyn.com – Jack Rinella, Leather views
http://llc.podshow.com – Leather leadership conference
http://masocast.com – Masocast, Unspeakable Axe
http://mydungeonspace.com/dungeonvox – DungeonVox, Nikita
http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/213-taste-of-sex-guest-speaker – A taste of sex, guest speakers
http://podcast.bdsmroundtable.com – BDSMroundtable
http://polyweekly.libsyn.com – Polyamory weekly
http://sadomasocast.blogspot.com – SadoMasoCast, NCD
http://soj.org/blogs/podcasts – Society of Janus podcasts
http://thisweekinkink.com – This week in kink
http://violetblue.libsyn.com – Open source sex, Violet Blue
www.askdollie.com – Submission and coffee, ThornDaddy and Dollie Llama
www.podiobooks.com/title/sm-diary – Diary of an S and M romance, ThornDaddy and Dollie Llama
www.blogtalkradio.com/Dave2112, www.blogtalkradio.com/Lady-Stardust – Wild Card Radio, Dave2112, Lady Stardust, RileySapphire
www.greatsexgames.com/podcast – Sex is fun
www.ropecast.net – Ropecast, Graydancer
http://youngandkinky.blogspot.com – Young and kinky, Benny and Jinx

BDSM and Fetish Information Sites

www.sexuality.org/bdsm.html – Society for Human Sexuality BDSM Archive
www.leathernroses.com – Leather and Roses BDSM Resource Site
www.evilmonk.org/A/menu.cfm – Ambrosio’s BDSM Site
http://gloria-brame.com – Gloria Brame
www.unrealities.com/adult/ssbb/faq.htm – Johnson Grey’s Site, The soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm FAQ List
www.iron-rose.com/IR/library.htm – Iron Rose Library
www.bcwsd.com/backroom/contents.shtml – BDSM Backroom
www.ecstagony.com – Agony and Ecstasy, Erotic spankings and punishments
www.tngc.org/tngc/newbie.html – The Next Generation of Chicago Newbie Center
www.leatherviews.com/kinkyinfo.htm – Jack Rinella’s Leatherviews
www.bannon.com – Race Bannon, Intelligent information, ideas and insights about the adventurous side of sex and relationships
www.thebrc.net – The BDSM Resource Center
www.soulshaven.f2s.com – Soul’s Haven
www.saroftreve.com/workshop/projects.shtml – Sartan’s BDSM Workshop: Projects
www.jaywiseman.com – Jay Wiseman
www.planetmidori.com – Midori
www.soj.org – The Society of Janus
www.steel-door.com/Chamber.html – Steel Door, an Archive of BDSM / DS Life Articles
www.albanypowerexchange.com/BDSMinfo/articles.htm – Albany Power Exchange BDSM Info
www.nlacolumbus.com/education/edumenu.html – National Leather Association Columbus Articles
www.bdsm-education.com – BDSM Education, Electric Switch
www.wizdomme.com – Wizdomme
www.frugaldomme.com/frugal.htm – The Frugal Domme
www.webmistress.org/crave – Crave
http://latches.webslaves.com – Latches, Support for Submissive Women
www.smgays.org – SM Gays
www.pawscave.dircon.co.uk/IML/fullin.htm – John Pendal’s Articles
www.hawkeegn.com/bdsm/kink.html – Lord Saber’s BDSM Page
http://public.diversity.org.uk/deviant/index.html – Deviant’s Dictionary
www.sensuoussadie.com – Sensuous Sadie
www.drkdesyre.com – Caryl’s BDSM Page
www.xeromag.com/fvbdsm.html – BDSM? What? Why? How? Franklin Veaux
www.symtoys.com – SymToys, Ideas and Scenarios
www.thedomsview.com – The Dominant’s View E-Zine
www.leatherpage.com – Leatherpage
http://boybear.us – Slave David Stein
www.leatherarchives.org – The Leather Archives and Museum Chicago
www.penitentialarts.com – Penitential Arts, history on the kinky side
www.leatherfamily.co.uk – KRuel UK Leather Family
www.seekers.org.uk – DS Seekers
www.vanilla-not.com – Vanilla-not, a DS Web Center
www.dsculture.com – DS Culture
http://fetishexchange.org – Fetish Information Exchange
www.domsub.info – Domsub Info
http://collarncuffs.com – CollarNCuffs
www.lauragoodwin.org/essays.html – Laura Goodwin
www.bdsm-peergroup.com – PEER Group, Cincinnati
www.sagacitygroup.net – Sagacity Group, British Columbia

www.soj.org/miesen1.html – A View On Sadomasochism by Don Miesen
www.technodyke.com/features/031102_leather.asp?page=1 – The second coming… out, by Aedan McKenna
http://thenetworklared.org/smvsabuse.htm – The Network / La Red: Is it S/M or Abuse?
www.revisef65.org/psychopathology.html – Revise F65 research abstracts
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bdsm – BDSM article in Wikipedia
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Glossary_of_BDSM – Glossary of BDSM in Wikipedia
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_BDSM_topics – BDSM topics in Wikipedia
www.londonfetishscene.com/wipi/index.php/Main_Page – LondonFetishScene Wipipedia, fetish and BDSM encyclopedia
http://towerofbabel.com/sections/erotica/submittedforyourapproval/indexofterminology – Index of terminology by Subaltern
www.informedconsent.co.uk/encyclopervia – Informed Consent BDSM Dictionary
www.datenschlag.org/english – Datenschlag sadomasochist education and support group, articles in English
www.akashaweb.com/women/goodgirlpreview.html – The good girl’s guide to domination by Akasha
www.bdsm-chicago.com – BDSM Chicago
http://absafecall.ca/ArticleMenu.html – Alberta Safecall
www.bdsmclasses.com – BDSM Classes
http://no.place.like.home.mindspring.com/abbot/index.htm – Abbot’s Place
www.bdsmwaxplay.com/erotic_waxing.htm – Erotic waxing: hot wax in sex play
www.officerwes.com – Officer Wes, Daddy Barry and Bobby
http://safersm.org/SaferSM/SaferSMPamphlet.html – Safer SM. Practical guidelines and advice on HIV and STD prevention within SM play
www.venusenvy.ca/resources_ve.asp – Venus Envy Articles
www.medicaltoys.com/doc-lib.htm – Medical Fetish Library
www.vampirespet.com/ActivityChecklist.html – Ruby’s submissive / dominant / switch activity checklist

http://sexresearch.us – Sex Research, Robert V. Bienvenu
http://www.ejhs.org/volume9/Hoff-abst.htm – Power and love: sadomasochistic practices in long-term committed relationships by Gabriele Hoff, Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality
www.scarleteen.com/article/sexuality/working_the_kinks_out – Working the kinks out, an alternative sexuality primer by Heather Corinna
www.scarleteen.com/tags/bdsm – BDSM articles on Scarleteen
www.exalte.com/sex-toys-and-bdsm – Exalte, sex toys and BDSM articles
www.sadomechanix.dk/index2-gb.htm – Sadomechanix
www.domsubfriends.com – Dom Sub Friends
http://masterslaveconference.org/speeches.html – Master/Slave Conference keynote speeches
www.thebarnyard.net/non-fiction/essays/femdom-101.html – Putting her in charge by Mule
www.black-rose.com/cuiru.html – Cuir Underground archive
http://zinelibrary.info/subversive-submissive-1 – Essays on kink, feminism and anarchism by Subversive Submissive

www.lantoniou.com – Laura Antoniou
www.bearpair.com – Bear Pair
www.boymeat.org – Boymeat
www.mortice.org – Mortice Deadlock
www.msdemmie.com – Ms Demmie
www.tammyjoeckhart.com – TammyJo Eckhart
http://masterfiremaam.com – Master Fire Maam
www.mjstoybox.biz/articles/index.html – Kim
www.carolqueen.com – Carol Queen
www.likera.com – Like Ra’s Naughty Playground
www.philosophy.taobytyler.com – Tao by Tyler Rose
www.houdini-connections.co.uk/home-page.htm – Jim Stewart’s Houdini Connections
www.verijaa.com/BDSMHome.htm – Verijaa

www.leatherweb.com – Leatherweb
www.leatherleadership.org – Leather Leadership Conference
http://truetales.org – True Tales, an erotic E-zine of masculinity and power
www.theleatherjournal.com – The Leather Journal
http://leatherlife.net – Leatherlife
www.nla-i.com – National Leather Association (US) International
http://leatherhalloffame.com – The leather hall of fame

www.bullwhip.org – The Bullwhip FAQ
http://users.tpg.com.au/users/ramskull/howto.htm – How to make your own whip
www.mybdsm.com/pages/faustopheles/bdsm.html – Faustopheles BDSM articles
www.mybdsm.com/pages/faustopheles/whips.html – Simple Flogger Construction Projects by Faustopheles

http://mcncirce.com/main.html – Thoughts on BDSM, Chris and Michelle
www.ozabis.info – The Australian BDSM Information Site
www.fetishalliance.net – Fetish Alliance
www.artofbdsm.com – The Art of BDSM
www.kufs.org/safety.html – Kentucky Underground Fetish Society Library
www.subdominion.com – Subdominion
www.nla-okc.com/filespage.htm – National Leather Association, Oklahoma City Chapter, articles
www.bdsmcircle.net – The BDSM Circle, Le Cercle BDSM, Montreal, Quebec
www.rcdc.org/content/articles.html – Rose City Discussion Group, articles by Tamar Kay
www.denversub.com/bdsm.html – Dimmie’s BDSM Information Page
http://carnalnation.com – Carnal Nation, entertainment and information for grown-ups

www.the-crucible.com/bdsm.htm – The Crucible, BDSM vs. Abuse
www.houseofdesade.com – House of de Sade
http://lthredge.com – The Book of Edge
www.bdsmdebunkingthemyths.com – BDSM: Debunking the Myths
www.edukink.org/articles/index – EduKink

www.fetishculture.com – Fetish Culture
www.submissiveloving.com – Submissive Loving
www.fsonline.ca – FS Online, Think outside the locks
www.deepwithinthesoul.me.uk – Deep Within the Soul
http://www.fad-nc.org – Female Artists of Domination
www.angelfire.com/fl/Dslifestyle/index2.html – Loving Mistress
www.libertyinrestraint.com – Liberty in Restraint, Noel Graydon

www.unfettered.co.uk/resources/index.html – Unfettered Resources. Celebrating and defending the diverse BDSM/Fetish community
www.darkerpleasures.com/primer/primer1.html – Darker pleasures. Breast and nipple play
www.text-solution.com/breath.html – Breath control safety notes
www.fistandfangs.com – Fist and Fangs
http://fakir.org – Fakir Musafar

Bondage Tutorials

www.bcwsd.com/backroom/library/articles_us/bkurs01.htm – BDSM Backroom. Excellent basic bondage lesson
www.sexuality.org/l/bdsm/steelbon.html – Steel bondage
www.ecstagony.com/eng/info/artbond.htm – Functional bondage
www.grometsplaza.net/packaged/tech/positional_asphyxia.html – Positional asphyxia by Gromet
http://ropetop.com – Ropetop
www.meninrope.com – Men in Rope
www.shibarilover.com/bondage101.htm – Shibari Lover Bondage 101 by Suzanne SxySadist
www.smgays.org/infosheets/classicbondage.asp – SM Gays Classic Bondage
http://jackelfrink.com/tutorials – Jack Elfrink
http://japanrope.com/tutorial.html – Japan Rope
www.bedroombondage.com/bondageu/drbondage/index.html – Bondage U, Techniques by Dr. Bondage
www.twistedmonk.com/video.htm – Twisted Monk instructional videos
www.knottyboys.com – Two Knotty Boys
http://park.kir.jp/gay/gana/common/shibari/galshibari.html – Rope bondage, click on the yellow Japanese text in brackets for step-by-step photos
www.officerwes.com/ropeman/harness.htm – Rope harness instructions by Ropeman
http://tgv9.free.fr/bondage/savane1.htm – Agnès Giard and Christophe Luxerea
www.bdsm-chicago.com/cram/CRAM_tuts.html – Chicago Rope and Mummification Club, Tutorials by MorTis
www.symtoys.com/ideas_bondage.html – SymToys Bondage 101
http://ds-arts.com/ – DS Arts, Jim Mantos (Tatu)
www.bondageproject.com/public/info-tipps_e.htm – Bondage Project
www.bindme.nl/eframes.htm – Bind Me, Marrow and Debora
www.ropefashions.com – Rope Fashions
www.ropemarks.com – Rope Marks
http://no.place.like.home.mindspring.com/abbot/articles/jl990104.htm – Mummification 101 by James LiGate
www.mummified.net/mum_techniques.html – Mummification

www.washi-nawashi.com/washiword/tutorials/ – Tutorials by Washi Nawashi
www.sadomechanix.dk/index-bdacademy-gb.htm – Sadomechanix bondage instructions
www.esinem.com – Esinem
www.talonseyrie.com/LIFESTYLES/BondageTechnique-Hogtie.html – Talon’s Eyrie, hogtie bondage techniques by John Savage
http://rare.ropemarks.com/glossary/shibari.php – Shibari glossary
http://members.tripod.com/sjfloats – The Straitjacket Floats
http://sj.blacksteel.com – The Straitjacket Page
www.feeneywire.com/rope/index.html – Chart about load limit of rope
www.motherearthnews.com/gallery.aspx?id=113446 – How to tie the 10 most useful knots
www.42brghtn.mistral.co.uk/knots/42ktmenu.html – Knots
www.troop7.org/Knots/Index.html – How to tie knots
www.tollesburysc.co.uk/Knots/Knots_gallery.htm – Knots gallery
www.animatedknots.com – Animated knots by Grog
www.realknots.com – Ropers Knots Page
www.folsoms.net/knots – Knots and Knotting

Selfbondage

www.icebondage.net – Ice Bondage
www.boundanna.com – Bound Anna
http://fetish.pornparks.com/solobound – Solo bound
http://selfbondage.tripod.com/index.htm – A little helpless by yourself
www.selfbound.net/sbtechniques.html – Self bondage techniques

Specific Activities and Fetishes, Miscellaneous

http://rubberist.net – International Association of Rubberists
www.rubberzone.com – Rubber Zone
www.gearfetish.com – Gear Fetish, sports gear, uniforms, leather, rubber, diving
http://spandexguys.com – Spandex Guys
http://capesaroundtheworld.net – Capes Around The World, hair capes
www.andyelycra.co.uk/newindex.htm – Andy E Lycra
www.staylace.com – Long Island Staylace Association, corsets
www.enemaloversguide.com/info.shtml – Enema Lovers Guide, klismaphilia
www.enematips.com – Enema tips
www.landmilkhoney.com – Land of Milk and Honey, lactation
www.winternet.com/~redright/fistfact.htm – Red Right, anal fisting
www.smartstim.com – Smartstim, e-stim, electro stimulation
http://mcgarden.org – The Garden of MC, erotic hypnosis
http://erotichypnosis.tripod.com – Erotic hypnosis
www.mordor.u-net.com/smbd/nettles.html – Use of nettles in BDSM games, urtication
www.textfiles.com/sex/EROTICA/N/nettle.txt – Stinging nettles, adventures in organic SM
http://theghidrah.com – The Ghidrah, ageplay resources
http://artisticdomme.com/faq.htm – cell popping

Anthropomorphic, Furry

www.fur.com/furry – Furry Resource Page
www.tigerden.com/infopage/furry/lifestyle.txt – The alt.lifestyle.furry FAQ
www.velocity.net/~galen/furrydef.html – Plushies and furries definitions
http://fursuit.org – Fursuit Information
http://fursuit.timduru.org/view – The Fursuit Archive

Boots, Bootblacking, Shoes

www.hotboots.com – Hot Boots, a community of men into boots
www.virginiabootboy.com – Virginia Boot Boy
www.stompersboots.com/stompers_bootcare.php – Boot Care Tips
www.fieggen.com/shoelace – Ian’s Shoelace Site

Chastity, Orgasm Control

www.tpe.com/~altarboy – Altairboy’s Chastity Belt Site
www.lockmeup.com – Lock Me Up, all about chastity belts
www.chastity-uk.co.uk – Chastity UK
www.lockedm4m.net – Locked M4M, men on men chastity
http://locknkeep.com – LocknKeep

Crossdressing, Gender Bending and Androgyny

www.genderfork.com – Genderfork, Beauty in Ambiguity
www.scarleteen.com/article/body/genderpalooza_a_sex_gender_primer – Genderpalooza! A Sex & Gender Primer
www.playbutch.com/article-mar03.html- Exploring the Paths of Gender and Self-Identity by Aedan McKenna
www.crossdressers.com – Community for Crossdressers, the Transgendered, Transsexuals, their Loved Ones and Friends
http://aosoc.org – Alpha Omega Society, support for crossdressers and their families
www.tvchix.com – tvChix
www.dantedifranco.com/HowTo.htm – How to be a Drag King by Dante DiFranco
www.ftmguide.org – Hudson’s FTM Resource Guide
www.yvonnesplace.net/head_toe/image.htm – Yvonnne’s Place for Crossdressers
www.tgcosmetics.com/tips/tips.htm – Crossdressing and Transgender Makeup Tips
http://reneereyes.com – Renee Reyes
www.beaumontsociety.org.uk – The Beaumont Society. Help and support for crossdressing and transgender people
www.beaumontsociety.org.uk/wobs/index.html – Women of the Beaumont Society, women in an intimate, familial or social relationship with a gender dysphoric person
www.gender.org.uk/wobsmatters – Women of the Beaumont Society

History

www.hawkeegn.com/bdsm/history.htm – Lord Saber’s BDSM history page (USA)
www.leatherarchives.org – The Leather Archives and Museum Chicago
www.penitentialarts.com – Penitential Arts. History on the Kinky Side
www.datenschlag.org/dachs – Datenschlag Chronicle of Sadomasochism (German)
www.datenschlag.org/english/dachs/index.html – Datenschlag Chronicle of Sadomasochism (partial English translation)
http://sexresearch.us/sexresearch.us/Links.html – The Development of Sadomasochism as a Cultural Style in the 20th Century United States by Robert Bienvenu, and other resources
www.ds-arts.com/RopeArt/History.html – History and style of rope: east vs. west by Tatu (Japan, Europe, North America)
www.bondageproject.com/public/history_e.htm – Japanese bondage history
www.darkconnections.com/history/history01.htm – Dark Connections history of black BDSM (North America)
http://duskpeterson.com/essays.htm#leatherhistory – Leather history essays by Dusk Peterson
www.cuirmale.nl – Cuir Male, Gay leather fetish history

Human Pet Play, Cat & Kitten Roleplay, Dog & Puppy Roleplay

www.thedoghouse.org – The Doghouse
www.humanfauna.com – Human Fauna. A site for animal roleplay fetishists and their handlers/trainers
www.kittenplay.net – Kittenplay
www.aigando.com – Inuya aigando. Asaji Muroi’s Pet woman dog room
www.puploki.com/dog.html – Puploki, human dog/puppy training

Human Pony Play

www.the-stampede.com/resources.html – The Stampede, ponyplay and animal roleplay resources
www.thehumanequine.com – The Human Equine
http://fetishpony.com – Fetishpony
www.hawkeegn.com/bdsm/ponyfaq.htm – Lord Saber’s Ponyplay FAQ
www.sirjeffponygirls.thekinkyserver.com – Sir Jeff’s Ponygirls
www.ponyplaylinks.com – Pony Play Links

Massage, General and Erotic

www.massagefree.com – Free massage lessons, general
www.sexuality.org/erotmass.html – Giving and receiving erotic massage
www.bdsmcentral.com/bdsm/tantricfemale.htm – Tantric massage, female
www.bdsmcentral.com/bdsm/tantricmale.htm – Tantric massage, male
http://english.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=248154 – How to give a yoni massage by Selena Kitt
http://english.literotica.com:81/stories/showstory.php?id=248161 – How to give a lingam massage by Selena Kitt

Polyamory

http://polyweekly.com – Polyamory Weekly
www.polyamory.org – Polyamory FAQs and resources
www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html – Polyamory essays by Franklin Veaux
www.humanpotentialcenter.org/Poly/PolyKit.html – Poly Communication Survival Kit
www.bee.net/cardigan/cardon/poly.htm – Cardigan on relationships
http://lovethatworks.org – The Institute for 21st Century Relationships
www.anakosha.org – Anakosha, the gentle path to sexual sharing
www.polychromatic.com/pfp – Poly-Friendly Professionals
www.lovemore.com – Loving More
http://zapoly.wuzzle.org – South African Polyamory
http://polyoz.dhs.org – PolyOz, Polyamory Resources Australia
www.pepperminty.com – Essays by Peppermint
www.serolynne.com/polyamory.htm – Serolynne

Service

www.thedinnerpartyplanningsite.com – Dinner party ideas and planning
http://davidalexandersmith.com/howto/waiter.html – How to be a good waiter
http://dshaven.com – DS Haven
www.howtocleananything.com – How to clean anything
www.cleaningexpert.co.uk – Cleaning expert
www.napkinfoldingguide.com – Napkin folding
www.butlersguild.com/index.php?subject=5 – The International Guild of Professional Butlers articles
www.butler-valetschool.co.uk/index.htm – Butler-Valet School articles
www.butlerbureau.com/html/bureau-site-map.html – The Butler Bureau articles
www.luggageonline.com/packing.cfm – Luggage packing tips
www.smartpacking.com – Smart packing
www.shushans.com/hattips.html – How to care for hats
www.tipking.co.uk – Tipking household tips
http://tipnut.com – Tipnut
www.hintsandthings.co.uk – Hints and things

Miscellaneous

www.darksideofpassion.com/personal.htm – How to write an effective personal by Atheris. Written for men who are looking for a dominant woman; useful for anyone looking for a relationship that includes BDSM.
www.melissadata.com/cgi-bin/peoplefinder.asp – Look people up (USA only)
www.leatherarchives.org/exhibits/reading.htm – What are kinky people reading?
www.cinekink.com – Alternative sexuality in film and television
http://sourceforge.net/projects/randomdresser – Random dresser by Crowley. This application allows you chose randomly from a user specified set of outfits and accessories (such as a random selection from your bondage gear).
http://humansexmap.com – A map of the lands of human sexuality by Franklin Veaux

General Sexuality and Gender

www.sexuality.org – Society for Human Sexuality
www.sexualpositionsfree.com – Sexual positions, hetero
www.gaysexualpositions.com – Sexual positions, gay and lesbian
http://loveandhealth.worldgroups.com – Love and Health
www.icame.com – Sexuality guide for a better orgasm, sex positions, masturbation
http://sexuality.about.com – About sexual pleasure and sexual health
www.sfsi.org – San Francisco Sex Information
www.sexualhealth.com – Sexual Health Network
www.thesite.org – The Site, your guide to the real world
www.scarleteen.com – Scarleteen, sex education for the real world
www.brook.org.uk – Brook, free, confidential advice on sex and contraception
www.take-it-like-a-man.com – Take it like a man, guide to strap-on sex
www.clitical.com – Clitical, female masturbation and sexuality
www.the-clitoris.com – The Clitoris, dedicated to female sexual pleasure and health
www.lilithweb.com – Lilith, the woman friendly adult site for exploring your sexuality
www.gmfa.org.uk/sex – GMFA The Gay Men’s health charity, sex and sexual health
www.superdrewby.com/sex – Gay sex guide
www.puckerup.com – Tristan Taormino, pucker up
www.tinynibbles.com – Violet Blue, open source sex
http://sexualintelligence.org – Sexual intelligence newsletter, Marty Klein
www.duckydoolittle.com – Ducky Doolittle

http://dodsonandross.com – Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
www.positive.org – Coalition for Positive Sexuality, sex education
www.teenwire.com – Sexuality and relationship info
http://midwestteensexshow.com – Midwest Teen Sex Show, video show about teen sexuality
www.sex-and-relationships.com – Sex and relationships
www.sexedlibrary.com – Ex Ed Library
www.siecus.org – SIECUS, Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States
http://content.libida.com – Sex tips for women

www.glbtq.com – Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender & Queer Encyclopedia
http://queertheory.com – Queer Theory
http://bi.org – Serving the world bisexual community
www.bisexual.org – American Institute of Bisexuality
www.emptyclosets.com – Empty Closets, coming out resources & a safe place to chat, gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, curious, unsure
www.outproud.org – OutProud, Coalition for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender youth
www.youthresource.com – Youth Resource, for GLBTQ young people
www.gender.org – Gender Education and Advocacy
www.ifge.org – Transgender tapestry & the International Foundation for Gender Education
www.gender.org.uk – About human gender and sex differences
www.tsfaq.info – Transsexualism and Gender Transition FAQ
www.tssupport.org – Transsexual Support
www.transliving.co.uk – Transliving International
http://transsexual.org – Transsexuality and Gender Dysphoria
www.accordalliance.org – Accord Alliance, better care, better outcomes, better lives, DSD and intersex
http://gpac.org – Gender Public Advocacy Coalition
www.asexuality.org – Asexual Visibility and Education Network

www.caras.ws – CARAS, Community-academic consortium for research on alternative sexualities
www.ejhs.org – Electronic Jounal of Human Sexuality
http://kinseyinstitute.org/resources – The Kinsey Institute for research in sex, gender and reproduction, resources page
www.sexscience.org – The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality

Groups and Gatherings

See also below: Links in languages other than English.

Directories of Groups, Clubs and Events

www.drkdesyre.com/meetppl/orgs/orgs.html – Caryl’s page, listings for various countries
www.thedomsview.com/TDV/linksb.htm – Groups in Canada, USA, UK, Australia, New Zealand
www.darkheart.com/usalist.html – USA sorted by states
www.fetishscene.com – USA and various other countries
www.informedconsent.co.uk/uk/ – UK
www.informedconsent.co.uk/xx/ – Various countries
www.theleatherjournal.com/?q=clubdirectory2 – Leather clubs, various countries
http://sm-finder.bvsm.de – Germany
www.schlagzeilen.com/de/smgruppen+und+stammtische/ – Germany, Denmark, Netherlands, Austria, Switzerland
http://kinkforall.org – Kink for All, ad-hoc informational unconferences on sexuality
www.thebdsmeventspage.com – BDSM events
http://mydungeonspace.com/events
www.ozabis.info/bdsmoz.html – Australia
http://masterkelly.com/resources/australia.html – Australia
www.aussieadultgroups.com/vicbdsm/month.php – Australia
www.londonfetishscene.com – London Fetish Scene

Counseling, Medicine, Law

www.ncsfreedom.org/kap – Kink aware professionals: psychotherapeutic, medical, legal
http://www2.hu-berlin.de/sexology/BIB/hcws/hcws.html – Health care without shame: a handbook for the sexually diverse and their caregivers, by Charles Moser
http://thenetworklared.org/smvsabuse.htm – The Network / La Red: Is it S/M or Abuse?
www.nlaidvproject.us – National Leather Association – International: domestic violence project
http://rainn.org – Rape, abuse & incest national network
www.clarku.edu/faculty/dhines/Resources%20and%20Links.htm – Partner aggression against men resources
www.dahmw.info – Domestic abuse helpline for men and women

Human Rights and Activism Groups

www.un.org/Overview/rights.html – Universal Declaration of Human Rights
www.who.int/reproductive-health/gender/sexualhealth.html – Sexual Health and Sexual Rights
www.tc.umn.edu/%7Ecolem001/was/wdeclara.htm – Declaration of Sexual Rights, World Association for Sexology
www.backlash-uk.org.uk – Backlash
www.spannertrust.org – The Spanner Trust
www.sfc.org.uk – The Sexual Freedom Coalition
www.revisef65.org – Revise F65
www.bdsmrights.com – BDSM Rights
www.ncsfreedom.org – National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (US)
www.unfettered.co.uk/bdsmrights/index.html – Unfettered. BDSM rights
www.consentcounts.org – Consent Counts, working to decriminalize consensual BDSM
www.woodhullfoundation.org – The Woodhull Freedom Foundation
www.ilga.org – International Lesbian and Gay Association
www.thetaskforce.org – National Gay and Lesbian Task Force (US)
www.outandequal.org – Out and Equal Workplace Advocates
www.hrc.org – Human Rights Campaign, working for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender equal rights
www.stonewall.org.uk – Stonewall
www.lambdalegal.org – Lambda legal
www.ffeusa.org – Feminists for Free Expression
www.fiawol.demon.co.uk/FAC – Feminists Against Censorship
www.eff.org – Electronic Frontier Foundation
www.dlas.org.uk – Campaign against censorship
http://nocleanfeed.com – No Clean Feed Australia
www.efa.org.au – Electronic Frontiers Australia
www.freespeechcoalition.com – Free Speech Coalition

Discussion Forums, Online Social Networks, Dating Sites

See also below: Links in languages other than English.

www.fetlife.com/login – Fetlife, a social network for the BDSM and fetish community
www.lifekink.com – Lifekink, a kink, BDSM and leather lifestyle networking website
http://collarncuffs.com/phpBB/index.php – Collar n Cuffs, a femdom community
www.fetishlore.com – Fetish Lore discussion forum, kink outside of the box
www.boundforum.com/forum – The Bound Forum, bondage, BDSM, selfbondage, mummification, chastity, latex, rubber, packaging
www.informedconsent.co.uk/boards – Informed Consent, UK BDSM discussion boards
www.collarchat.com – Collarchat, general BDSM forum part of the dating site Collar Me
http://bondage.com/forums/default.html – Fetish, Bondage and BDSM message boards
http://mydungeonspace.com/forum – MyDungeonSpace forum

http://gloria-brame.master.com – BDSM message boards on Gloria Brame’s site
http://forum.literotica.com/forumdisplay.php?f=26 – Literotica BDSM Talk
www.lesbotronic.com – Lesbotronic, lesbian personals site
www.butch-femme.com – Butch-Femme
http://butch-femme.co.uk – Butch-Femme-Transguy
www.butchfemmedating.co.uk – Butch Femme Dating
www.recon.com – Recon, photo profiles, fetish personals and chat site for gay men
www.straypup.net – Straypup, dating site for adult gay people with an interest in BDSM, role playing, human animal roleplay, consensual dominance and submission
http://okcupid.com – OK Cupid, general dating site, kink friendly
www.darkconnections.com – Dark Connections, Black BDSM personals and resources for People of Color
www.she-makes-the-rules.com – She Makes The Rules, discussions for women and men about real life daily living in the reality of a female led relationship
www.mybdsm.com – MyBDSM personal and group pages
www.seekdiscipline.com – Seek Discipline, master/slave, dominance/submission, ownership, consensual possession
http://forum.stockroom.com – JT’s Stockroom discussion forum, KinkWire
www.forumbondage.com – The Convolvulus and Esinem Bondage Forum
http://kinkyjews.com – Kinky Jews, a community which brings together Jewish kinksters
www.bdsmtasks.org – BDSM Tasks
www.bdsm-sanctuary.com – The BDSM Sanctuary
www.slavefarm.com – Slavefarm
www.bdsmireland.org – BDSM Ireland
www.whisper.co.nz – Whisperings, a New Zealand BDSM resource and link site
www.znights.com – ZNights, alternative lifestyles community site for South Africa and surrounding places
www.collarme.co.za – Collar Me South Africa, BDSM community site
http://ukfetish.info – UK Fetish Info, interactive resource for the UK fetish community
www.webzchat.co.uk – Webzchat, UK BDSM Swingers Community

Web Directories

www.janesguide.com – Jane’s Guide, adult website reviews
http://domsubfriends.com/a-wwwdir – DomSubFriends directory
www.dungeonnet.com/weblinks/index.html – Dungeon Net BDSM directory
www.polyfetishist.com – Polyfetishist, a directory of erotic pluralism
www.fetbot.com/Links – Fetbot

Links in Languages other than English

These are mainly websites containing information and/or discussion, and dating sites. If you have corrections or further resource link suggestions, please let me know. Thank you!

For international directories listing groups, clubs and events, see above: Groups and Gatherings.

Belarusian – Belaruskaya; Belarus -Беларусь

http://bdsmby.org

Bulgarian – Bulgarski; Bulgaria – България

www.f-bg.org
www.bg-lesbian.com/bdsm

Chinese – Zhongwen; China – 中国, Taiwan – 台湾

www.bdsm.com.tw

Czech – Cesky; Czech Republic – Česká republika, Česko

www.bdsm.cz

Danish – Dansk; Denmark – Danmark

www.sado.dk
www.manifest.eu
www.sadomechanix.dk

Dutch – Nederlands; Netherlands – Nederland, Belgium – België